I would go back to a day in 1994 when I was visiting my cousins in Chicago. I had the chance to say goodbye to my aunt who was dying of cancer. Instead, I let her rest but will regret not going over to see her. The lesson I took away from that is to live each day to the fullest…tell those you love how you're feeling, appreciate the little things…what I know for sure is that her spirit lives on in me. It gives me peace to think about that.